the art of independence
I've always been a relatively codependent person. I never liked ordering for myself, never wanted to talk to strangers, and I was considered "the quiet one" at school and family functions. Even into my early adulthood, I hated going anywhere alone. I'd ask anyone and everyone if they wanted to come with me. You soon find out in life that this can hinder your enjoyment of many things. It seems near impossible to plan outings with friends. Some work full-time 9-5s, others part-time at odd hours. Some are in school always having to study, and others are even starting families. I found myself putting off the things I wanted to do and the places I wanted to go, solely because no one would be available or interested in going with me. If I am being honest, I get major FOMO. Both in terms of feeling left out if my friends hang out without me, and in the way of not wanting to miss out on life. I don't want to miss out on trying a restaurant before it closes simply beca...